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Anti-gay attacks spark concern in NYC

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New York City Council Speaker Christine Quinn (Photo by Thomas Good / NLN via Wikimedia Commons)

NEW YORK—A series of attacks against LGBT New Yorkers in Manhattan over the last two weeks has sparked concern among local advocates.

The Anti-Violence Project said four men shouted anti-gay slurs as they attacked Nick Porto and Kevin Atkins near Madison Square Garden on May 5. The agency said the New York Police Department has arrested a suspect in connection with a second anti-gay attack that took place in Union Square on May 7.

Two men reportedly shouted anti-gay slurs as they attacked a man who was leaving a West Village bar on May 8. The NYPD arrested two men who allegedly attacked two gay men near a PATH station in Herald Square around 5 a.m. on May 9.

“I am outraged by this string of assaults,” New York City Council Speaker Christine Quinn, a lesbian, said in a statement issued May 10. “These vicious assaults are not reflective of the diversity that defines New York City.”

YouTube accused of ‘protecting’ anti-gay church

Brent Childers, gay news, Washington Blade

Brent Childers, executive director of Faith in America. (Photo courtesy of Childers)

The LGBT advocacy group Faith In America says YouTube has refused to explain why it removed from its website a video produced by the group about a 22-year-old gay man who says he was held against his will for four months and assaulted by members of a North Carolina church that considers homosexuality a form of “demonic possession.”

Brent Childers, executive director of Faith In America, said he believes the Spindale, N.C., based Word of Faith Fellowship church misled YouTube into thinking the video infringed upon its religious freedom.

Childers and others who have monitored the church say it has the characteristics of a cult and exerts extraordinary control over the lives of its members and their children. They say Word of Faith Fellowship, which operates on a 40-acre campus, has a long history of abusive treatment of gays.

“It is really dumbfounding,” Childers said. “YouTube allows a controversial video that pokes fun at Islam. But here we have a video in which a person is telling his own personal knowledge of how this bizarre Christian church treats gay youth or those suspected of being gay, and they remove the video.”

Attempts by the Washington Blade to reach YouTube, which is owned by the search engine giant Google, have been unsuccessful. A YouTube spokesperson couldn’t be reached by phone and the company didn’t respond to email sent to an address listed for “press inquiries.”

Pastors Jane and Sam Whaley, the founders and leaders of Word of Faith Fellowship, posted a message on the church website denying the church has mistreated gays and said the allegations made by the Faith In America video were false.

The gay man who is the subject of the video, Michael Lowry, told the Washington Blade his parents raised him as a church member since he was born and that he attended church operated schools on the church compound from kindergarten through 12th grade.

He said church members subjected him to severe pressure since his early teens to expel what they said were “demons” within him that were causing him to embrace homosexuality.

“I was very different than a lot of the other kids,” he said. “I was viewed as being gay. I never said I am gay…It was a very hard time. Through my whole school years I was very bullied, hurt because of that.”

Lowry said that around July of 2011, church members came to his home while his parents were out of town and forced him to go with them to a building on the church compound known as the Fourth Building, where male church members reportedly are taken for punishment for violating church rules.

He said he was held in the building against his will for four months and at one point was assaulted by church members assigned to watch over him during his stay at the facility. He said church officials released him in November 2011.

FBI may have been contacted by U.S. Attorney’s Office

Jerry Cooper, a Baptist minister and former member of Word of Faith Fellowship, said he has been assisting Lowry since last year in his role as a counselor to people who leave the church and who often suffer psychological scars from their experiences with the church.

Childers said the video that YouTube deleted consisted of an interview with Cooper talking about Michael Lowry’s case. Childers said for unknown reasons YouTube did not delete a separate video that includes an interview with Lowry.

According to Cooper and Don Huddle, a member of Faith Freedom Fund, a North Carolina group that helps ex-Word of Faith Fellowship members adjust to life outside the church, said church members brought Lowry to a nearby hotel after they released him.

“They took him to the hotel with just a few of his belongings,” said Huddle, who noted that someone familiar with the church alerted his group to Lowry’s plight and informed him that a confused and emotionally distraught young man had been taken to the hotel.

“I picked him up from the hotel and brought him to a safe house,” he said. Huddle said Faith Freedom Fund has a network of volunteers and supporters who spring into action when they learn of Word of Faith Fellowship members who desire to leave the church.

Cooper said he met Lowry through Huddle’s group in 2011 and advised him to consider reporting the church’s actions against him to the Rutherford County Sheriff’s office, which is the law enforcement agency in the area where the church is located.

He said Lowry reported to a Sheriff’s Office investigator that he had been taken against his will and held against his will by church members, and the office began an investigation that resulted in Lowry being called this week to testify before a county grand jury. His testimony was scheduled for Wednesday.

Meanwhile, Childers said Faith In America contacted the U.S. Justice Department about Lowry’s allegations in October and called on the department to investigate the church’s alleged detention of Lowry and his claim of being assaulted by church members as a possible anti-gay hate crime.

A spokesperson for the United States Attorney’s Office in the Western District of North Carolina, which represents the Justice Department, said she would make inquiries about whether her office has responded to Faith In America’s request for an investigation. The spokesperson didn’t immediately get back to the Blade.

However, Cooper said an FBI agent interviewed Lowry for several hours last week about his allegations against the church, a development that suggests the U.S. Attorney’s office contacted the FBI to investigate the matter.

A copy of an incident report taken from Lowry by the Sheriff’s Office in February 2012 and released by Faith in America, says a group of men affiliated with the church “held him down and hit him about the face and chest area” at the time the church held him against his will in August 2011.

“Mr. Lowry stated that he told them to let go but they would not,” the report says. “The reason they [did] this was because he was homosexual and they [were] trying to get him to stop being homosexual. When this incident was taking place, the group would tell him he had demons in him and he was going to hell,” the report says.

‘YouTube… is giving cover to a church that believes it is OK to harm gay youth’

A statement released by Faith In America says that during Lowry’s forced stay at the church facility “he was subjected to humiliating acts, such as being made to sleep on the floor in the hallway and had to submit to supervised bathroom visits because church members feared he might be masturbating.”

“What YouTube is doing, perhaps inadvertently in this particular case, is giving cover to a church that believes it is OK to harm gay youth and families in the name of religious teaching,” Chiders said. “In doing so, it is giving cover to a vast number of churches who do the same thing, whether a small charismatic church in rural North Carolina or a large Methodist church in some American suburb.”

In a posting on its website, Word of Faith Fellowship disputes Lowry’s allegations and accuses Faith in America of “repeated vicious lies” about the church.

“We have always been a church that has loved everybody, because God is love,” the statement says. “What Michael Roy Lowry has said never happened. We would never allow it to happen. We do not discriminate against anyone, and we never have.”

The statement adds, “We never knew Michael Roy Lowry was gay until we heard it on the news program. It would have made no difference to us, because we love him.”

Cooper, who said he has closely followed Word of Faith Fellowship since he left it in 1998, said evidence is “overwhelming” from people who leave the church that church leaders abuse people suspected of being gay or suspected of engaging in any type of sexual activity not deemed appropriate by the church, even between consenting adults, gay or straight.

He said the church has prohibited Lowry’s family from seeing or talking to Lowry, a practice he said the church carries out with most people who leave it.

Fighting back against street harassment

Silent March for Victims of GLBT Violence, Columbia Heights, hate crimes, gay news, Washington Blade

Members of the community fighting back against anti-gay hate crimes in Columbia Heights on Mar. 20, 2012. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

By PATRICK McNEIL

It’s April and I’m glad the weather is tolerable. I love taking walks and I love spending time outside. It’s beautiful, but warmer temperatures unfortunately also mean more opportunities for street harassment.

It’s a blessing and a curse.

For women and LGBTQ individuals (and those perceived to be LGBTQ), street harassment is a systemic, year-long problem, but we’re reminded at this time every year, when we engage in public interaction with greater frequency, how large of a problem it is.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness & Prevention Month and earlier this month was International Anti-Street Harassment Week, a week during which activists work to raise awareness about how serious of an issue street harassment is. The event began two years ago as one day, an initiative started by Stop Street Harassment founder Holly Kearl. For the past two years, hundreds of organizations from around the globe have participated in weeklong movements.

As a gay man living in one of the gayest cities in America (and the gayest state), I’ve been particularly interested in the public harassment of this community. While my master’s thesis covered only gay and bisexual men, I am part of the community and an ally to everyone in the community. I don’t want anyone to experience street harassment.

Unfortunately, we do. Recently, the New York Times published a piece about the unfair treatment of transgender individuals by police officers in New York. I shed a tear while reading the article, a cruel reminder that, if you’re in public and not cis gender, you’re likely to be harassed. For gay men and lesbians, too, public displays of femininity and masculinity that at least border on gender non-conforming result in verbal assaults. And sometimes it gets physical.

Earlier this month in Paris, a gay couple was brutally beaten for holding hands in public. And this isn’t uncommon. Couples in the LGBTQ community are constantly required to negotiate a desire for visibility while recognizing the very real dangers of being out in public. Couples are reminded all the time that their presence is unwanted in public spaces. It’s a great source of stress and something that’s always on our minds, coupled or alone. In fact, according to my own research, about 71 percent of gay and bisexual men constantly assess their surroundings when navigating public spaces.

And we’re reminded in examples like these that our struggles are unique. When a heterosexual woman is accompanied by her partner, her chances of being harassed go down. For LGBTQ individuals the opposite happens. I’ve been there. I’ve been harassed on the street and on the Metro for holding hands with a guy. It’s not news to anyone that it happens, but it does happen with alarming frequency.

The public harassment of LGBTQ individuals is also unfortunate because of how different everyone’s identity development looks. I didn’t even come out to myself until college, but I was certainly bullied growing up for being gay. I felt social pressures and I felt uncomfortable. When you’re internally reconciling a queer identity and simultaneously being harassed because of the identity you refuse to accept, life is not easy, and it can stall the coming out process. One of my research participants, even though he was out to himself, delayed his coming out because he knew his small-town Iowa peers would adversely react. People shouldn’t have to hide their identities because they fear public retribution.

And really, I can’t say that I experience street harassment every day, as I know many women and many other LGBTQ individuals can. I don’t have to experience it to feel its effects, because I am always afraid. I’m afraid because it’s possible, because it’s happened before and will happen again, and because we live in a society where it’s unfortunately normal and expected.

These problems won’t be fixed in a week of activism and we’re likely not to even make a dent. But we have to start somewhere. Stop Street Harassment, regional Hollaback organizations, and others work year-round to combat the public harassment of women and LGBTQ folks, and they need our help.

If you’re harassed, share your story. The more of us who speak out, the more attention it will get. It’s about collectively amplifying each other’s voices, about standing in solidarity and saying that this isn’t OK. It’s about human rights and creating social spaces where all humans are free from this form of public harassment.

Patrick McNeil is a D.C.-based writer. Reach him at patrickryne@gmail.com.

Fighting back against street harassment

Silent March for Victims of GLBT Violence, Columbia Heights, hate crimes, gay news, Washington Blade

Members of the community fighting back against anti-gay hate crimes in Columbia Heights on Mar. 20, 2012. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

By PATRICK McNEIL

It’s April and I’m glad the weather is tolerable. I love taking walks and I love spending time outside. It’s beautiful, but warmer temperatures unfortunately also mean more opportunities for street harassment.

It’s a blessing and a curse.

For women and LGBTQ individuals (and those perceived to be LGBTQ), street harassment is a systemic, year-long problem, but we’re reminded at this time every year, when we engage in public interaction with greater frequency, how large of a problem it is.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness & Prevention Month and earlier this month was International Anti-Street Harassment Week, a week during which activists work to raise awareness about how serious of an issue street harassment is. The event began two years ago as one day, an initiative started by Stop Street Harassment founder Holly Kearl. For the past two years, hundreds of organizations from around the globe have participated in weeklong movements.

As a gay man living in one of the gayest cities in America (and the gayest state), I’ve been particularly interested in the public harassment of this community. While my master’s thesis covered only gay and bisexual men, I am part of the community and an ally to everyone in the community. I don’t want anyone to experience street harassment.

Unfortunately, we do. Recently, the New York Times published a piece about the unfair treatment of transgender individuals by police officers in New York. I shed a tear while reading the article, a cruel reminder that, if you’re in public and not cis gender, you’re likely to be harassed. For gay men and lesbians, too, public displays of femininity and masculinity that at least border on gender non-conforming result in verbal assaults. And sometimes it gets physical.

Earlier this month in Paris, a gay couple was brutally beaten for holding hands in public. And this isn’t uncommon. Couples in the LGBTQ community are constantly required to negotiate a desire for visibility while recognizing the very real dangers of being out in public. Couples are reminded all the time that their presence is unwanted in public spaces. It’s a great source of stress and something that’s always on our minds, coupled or alone. In fact, according to my own research, about 71 percent of gay and bisexual men constantly assess their surroundings when navigating public spaces.

And we’re reminded in examples like these that our struggles are unique. When a heterosexual woman is accompanied by her partner, her chances of being harassed go down. For LGBTQ individuals the opposite happens. I’ve been there. I’ve been harassed on the street and on the Metro for holding hands with a guy. It’s not news to anyone that it happens, but it does happen with alarming frequency.

The public harassment of LGBTQ individuals is also unfortunate because of how different everyone’s identity development looks. I didn’t even come out to myself until college, but I was certainly bullied growing up for being gay. I felt social pressures and I felt uncomfortable. When you’re internally reconciling a queer identity and simultaneously being harassed because of the identity you refuse to accept, life is not easy, and it can stall the coming out process. One of my research participants, even though he was out to himself, delayed his coming out because he knew his small-town Iowa peers would adversely react. People shouldn’t have to hide their identities because they fear public retribution.

And really, I can’t say that I experience street harassment every day, as I know many women and many other LGBTQ individuals can. I don’t have to experience it to feel its effects, because I am always afraid. I’m afraid because it’s possible, because it’s happened before and will happen again, and because we live in a society where it’s unfortunately normal and expected.

These problems won’t be fixed in a week of activism and we’re likely not to even make a dent. But we have to start somewhere. Stop Street Harassment, regional Hollaback organizations, and others work year-round to combat the public harassment of women and LGBTQ folks, and they need our help.

If you’re harassed, share your story. The more of us who speak out, the more attention it will get. It’s about collectively amplifying each other’s voices, about standing in solidarity and saying that this isn’t OK. It’s about human rights and creating social spaces where all humans are free from this form of public harassment.

Patrick McNeil is a D.C.-based writer. Reach him at patrickryne@gmail.com.