DNC Treasurer Andrew Tobias pushed back against ENDA, immigration criticism. (Blade file photo by Michael Key)
The treasurer of the Democratic National Committee is defending first lady Michelle Obama for failing to address LGBT workplace discrimination and the exclusion of bi-national gay couples from immigration reform during a fundraising speech she gave Wednesday in New York.
Andrew Tobias, who’s gay, responded to concerns expressed in an off-the-record listserv for major LGBT donors in an email obtained by the Washington Blade on Thursday.
In the email, Tobias praised Obama for her speech, which did not mention her husband’s failure to issue an executive order barring LGBT workplace discrimination among federal contractors. She also didn’t directly address the exclusion of bi-national same-sex couples from the immigration reform bill.
“My own feeling is that she did it just right, and that almost everyone in the room â certainly including the First Lady and the DNC Chair â are very much aware of these specifics (as are the key players in the WH),” Tobias wrote to the listserv. “You and all the rest of us are absolutely right to be frustrated by the delays and to keep pushing (Iâm hoping this Exxon/Mobil hook might be the one that puts it across the finish line).”
Tobias attempts to allay concerns about Senate Democrats rejecting the Uniting American Families Act by saying the Supreme Court will likely address the issue soon by striking down the Defense of Marriage Act â thanks in part to “two Justices McCain would never have appointed” â and by estimating that 500,000 LGBT people are among the 11 million undocumented immigrants who would obtain a pathway to citizenship if reform were passed. (The Williams Institute estimates a smaller number, 267,000, are LGBT.)
“Some are certain the Republicans in the Senate and House would NEVER have torpedoed the immigration bill over this or anything else, because theyâd be crazy to,” Tobias wrote. “But the Tea Party types are getting ever more extreme and short-sighted, so Iâm not certain either way.”
Tobias enumerates the many high-profile LGBT people who attended the event â including Edith Windsor, the New York widow who is the plaintiff in the DOMA case, and Super Bowl champ Brendon Ayanbadejo â before concluding by saying people are right to push for more rights, but the other major national party wouldn’t have held such an event.
“The RNC has never had a dinner like this,” Tobias writes. “We are truly not yet welcome in their party; they are still a huge obstacle to the equality we deserve; and until that changes, those of us who can afford to plant the seed corn for further success in 2014 and 2016 could not possibly make a more leveraged investment in equality.”
Tobias wrote the email days after one Democratic donor, Miami-based philanthropist Jonathan Lewis, said heÂ is withholding donations to Democrats and asking others to do the same over the immigration issue and the executive order.
The first lady spoke at the annual LGBT gala for the Democratic National Committee, which she headlined along with gay NBA player Jason Collins. A DNC official said tickets were between $1,250Â and $32,400 and approximately 350 people attended.
The DNC wouldn’t reveal the total amount raised at the event. It’s unclear whether Lewis’ email had any impact on the money raised.
After being introduced by Collins, Obama spoke for about 20 minutes, according to a pool report from the event, and touted the president’s achievements on LGBT issues and other matters.
“Because of you, we are taking on climate change, gun violence, comprehensive immigration reform,” the first lady said. “And because of you, yes, we have a president who stands up for our most fundamental rights, from ending “Donât Ask, Donât Tellâ to strengthening hate crimes to supporting our right to marry the person we love. Because of you.”
Obama urged the attendees to max out the donations they can offer the Democratic Party over the course of an election cycle. For the DNC, that’s $32,400 in each of the two years of this cycle, so $64,800 if someone maxes out both years.
“We need you to keep on writing those checks â and if you havenât maxed out, you know, whatâs my motto?” the first lady said. “Max out. Letâs say it together. Max out. And if youâve maxed out, get your friends to max out. … Â Sounds kind of baller, too â maxing out. Everyone here should be maxed out.”
The White House didn’t immediately respond to a request for comment on why LGBT workplace discrimination and immigration were absent form the first lady’s speech.
LGBT groups working on these issues said they’d welcome the first lady’s help by the addition of her voice to efforts to protect bi-national couples and institute LGBT workplace discrimination protections.
Tico Almeida, president of Freedom to Work, said Michelle Obama’s voice would be a boon to efforts to pass ENDA over the course of this year and the campaign to institute an executive order barring LGBT workplace discrimination.
“I think the first lady’s a rock star, and she’s admired by many, many Americans,” Almeida said. “I admire her a great deal. In part, I admire her because she’s an incredibly effective advocate for many issues, and important issues, that she’s championed over the past years. It would be wonderful if the first lady helped our ENDA advocacy and made the case this year as we’re moving toward the full Senate vote that LGBT Americans should be able to build a career without fear of getting fired just because of who they are, or who they love.”
Steve Ralls, spokesperson for Immigration Equality, redirected attention to another speech from New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg in which he called for UAFA-inclusive immigration reform.
“I wasn’t in the room with the first lady last night,” Ralls said. “But I can tell you that, as she was speaking, Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg was addressing Immigration Equality’s supporters â just a few blocks away â at our New York gala. Mayor Bloomberg called on Congress to include LGBT families in immigration reform, putting one of the most important advocates for reform solidly on record in support of our families.”
The full email from Tobias follows:
My own feeling is that she did it just right, and that almost everyone in the room â certainly including the First Lady and the DNC Chair â are very much aware of these specifics (as are the key players in the WH).
You and all the rest of us are absolutely right to be frustrated by the delays and to keep pushing (Iâm hoping this Exxon/Mobil hook might be the one that puts it across the finish line).Â One key player I spoke with praised Jeffrey Marburgâs Washington Post op-ed (posted here a few days ago) as exactly the right way to do it: respectful, well-reasoned, powerful.
But while I have you, a few other notes from the glass half-full side of the ledger:
1.Â It was a wonderful dinner, celebrating the progress we HAVE made since the last time, as a senatorâs wife, the First Lady spoke at our dinner.Â Â Here was the video we showed. Â It begins with an excerpt from her remarks five years ago.
2.Â As frustrating as the UAFA situation is â and deeply wrong that anyone has to choose between love and country â Iâm pretty sure that in part because of the two Justices McCain would never have appointed, DOMA will fall in a few weeks and a great many couples will no longer have to make such a choice.Â We should keep pushing until we have an even better resolution, but Iâm hopeful it will truly change the lives of most whoâve had to deal with this so long.
2a. Letâs not lose sight of our 500,000 undocumented LGBT brothers and sisters who, if the immigration bill does get signed into law, will have their lives transformed with legal status and a pathway to citizenship. (Iâm assuming that 4% or 5% of the 11 million are LGBT.)Â They canât afford to come to dinners like the one we had last night, but they count too.
Some are certain the Republicans in the Senate and House would NEVER have torpedoed the immigration bill over this or anything else, because theyâd be crazy to. Â But the Tea Party types are getting ever more extreme and short-sighted, so Iâm not certain either way. (To borrow Barney Frankâs line from a different context: âWeâre not perfect, but theyâre nuts.â)Â This isnât to say Iâm not disappointed. But given the two points above, and what will be our continued efforts to get where we all want to end up, thereâs reason, I think, to be less angry than some are.Â And room for many of us, equally committed to equality, to be more supportive.
3.Â There were many highlights last night –Â Super Bowl champÂ Brendon AyanbadejoÂ was there!Â Inaugural poetÂ Richard BlancoÂ was there!Â P-FAWâsÂ Michael Keegan, GLSENâsÂ ElizaÂ Byard, LambdaâsÂ KevinÂ Cathcart, and GMHCâsMarjorie HillÂ were there!Â A SINNER IN MECCAâs gay Muslim documentarianParvez SharmaÂ was there!Â Â Rabbi Sharon KleinbaumÂ and Freedom to MarryâsÂ Evan WolfsonÂ and the ACLUâsÂ James Esseksand the Victry FndâsÂ Chuck WolfeÂ were there! Media Matters founderÂ David Brockand Athlete Ally founderÂ Hudson TaylorÂ and All OutÂ co-founderÂ Andre BanksÂ and SLDNâsÂ Aubrey SarvisÂ were there!Â The firstÂ transgenderÂ member of the DNCâs executive committee,Â Babs Siperstein, was there!Â Â Robbie Kaplan, who argued Edie Windsorâs case before theÂ Supreme Court, was there! Edie Windsor HERSELF was there! â along with terrific elected officials, local and national, gay and straight, and Ambassador James Hormel . . .
. . . but the unexpected highlight of the evening (everyone knew Bravoâs Andy Cohen would do a great job emceeing and that NBA center Jason Collins would give the First Lady a great into and that the First Lady herself would leave the assembled on their feet cheering) was a 22-year-old transgender woman who did a lovely job of introducing DNC Chair Debbie Wasserman-Schultz (whose congressional district, she notes, which include South Beach, she now refers to as âstraight friendlyâ) and then turned to where DWS was supposed to enter from backstage to give her remarks . . . and waited a little more . . . nervous, supportive laughter riding from the crowd . . . and then — far from freezing in the headlights — just won us over completely by telling us her story, taking questions . . . it was completely charming, and the transgender CEO of a multi-billion-dollar biotech firm seated next to me with her wife was just loving every minute of it, as were 280 others.Â Young Evie Renee Arroyo was a star.
Anyway, and as always: Â everyone is right to push, and also to support, because BOTH are in our self-interest to do.Â The RNC has never had a dinner like this.Â We are truly not yet welcome in their party; they are still a huge obstacle to the equality we deserve; and until that changes, those of us who can afford to plant the seed corn for further success in 2014 and 2016 could not possibly make a more leveraged investment in equality.